Thursday, October 22, 2015

Influence Young People

Reaching young people can be difficult, but it's not impossible


Young people can seem so far removed from the mainstream culture of the adult world that communication can seem impossible. It may seem to parents or teachers that reaching and influencing a young person is not only difficult but futile. However, teenagers and individuals in their early 20s are not only in need of communication and relationships with older individuals they often want both of those things. Breaking through cultural barriers and perceived resistance to reach young people is not as hard as it may seem.


Instructions


1. Remember back to when you were the age of the individual you are trying to influence. Ask yourself how you felt at that age and how you reacted to adults in your life. Be reflective and critical of yourself. Examine your motivation for wanting to reach and influence the young person in question. Eliminate any ulterior motives.


2. Be authentic--young people are acutely sensitive to and familiar with insincerity. Approach the young person with honesty. Respect the young person's perspective while maintaining your own.


3. Allow for dissonance--a disagreement is not necessarily negative, and a clear difference of opinion is better than a misunderstanding. Introduce your opinion with confidence. Listen to the other side with sensitivity and interest.


4. Recognize the young person's life experience and validate that experience. Having more years of life than another person does not diminish the importance of that individual's years of life. Ask questions before offering answers. An equal exchange of ideas will make the young person more likely to be open to your ideas.


5. Trust your instincts. Do not over-think your intended influence on the individual. Live your life honestly and openly and you will naturally influence every individual around you--including young people--positively. Allow yourself to be positively influenced by those around you in return and learn from the young person you are trying to reach.

Tags: young person, years life, your life